Marriage is a job. Marriage is work. Marriage is hard. Marriage is a sacrifice. Marriage is a liability. Marriage is an asset. Marriage is intention. Marriage is privilege. Marriage is joy. Marriage is peace. Marriage is friendship. Marriage is value. Marriage is opportunity. Marriage is partnership. Marriage is choice. Marriage is uplifting. Marriage is cherished. Marriage is zeal. Marriage is thrill.
It is all about perspective. Some marriages stand, endure, overcome, influence, inhale, exhale – live to tell – tell it all. The good, the great, the lessons and the blessings. Other marriages allow pride to invade and persuade. Overwhelm, underwhelm, pretense, intent. Let’s talk about it. Let’s be honest and precise.
You decided to embark upon the journey to search for your partner, your friend, your comfort, your safe space because life shared eases the load would be someone’s thought by default. My perspective includes, it is the addition of bliss and power that questions if there ever is a load because of what naturally happens due to desire and choice.
Resetting, reflecting, regrouping, but with the one you chose makes the space more possible, enjoyable, less exasperating, a sigh of relief and it makes you my person. What does that mean? My person wants to, gets to, wakes up to live a life with me that is more liberating because of connectedness. My person is my cornerstone, God-given anchor. An anchor that feels it before it occurs and strengthens and tightens the grip. An anchor that expands to fit the hole preventing irreparable breaks and cracks.
Marriage is power. Marriage is maintenance. Marriage is attention. Marriage is appeal. Marriage is perspective. Marriage is all the things it has been designed to be. The root of family. The institution that delivers through the generations. Delivers blessings, moments, traditions. I get it, I get the opposing view, but for the sake of positive achievability, let’s be realistic, yes, optimistic and true. All things are possible, even a positive approach and viewpoint on marriage.
Unconventional and REAL 